When the penis enters the vagina (P13/R18)

Human beings as are divided into two biological sexes male and female but sometimes we have hermaphrodites. Males have a penis and females have a vagina . Female breast are usually larger than those of males. These differences make relations between them fascinating. Each wants to discover what the other has or doesn’t have.When the two, meet  in a conducive environment, their senses are heightened and turns all the focus to the sexual differences. Breast become engorged, the clitoris and penis become erect and the vagina becomes lubricated in preparation of receiving  the penis. The penis also produces some seminal fluid which also helps in lubrication.

Lets skip the foreplay and go straight to the matters of today. The erect penis finally enters the vagina and starts thrusting in and out. The warmth and heightened senses bring  immense pleasure and so does the friction, stretching of the vagina and stimulation of the clitoris. Women are privileged to have multiple orgasms if the counterpart has done an effective  job. An orgasm is like an explosion of all senses the climax of the whole process. It causes the penis to vibrate and spurt semen. The process I have just described above is called sexual intercourse, coitus and for those deeply in love ; making love.

Was that difficult, why then don’t people want to talk about sex. We act as we have neither a penis nor a vagina. These two organs are deemed sacred and we are only comfortable to talk about their excretory use and yet most of you are already having sex. The main reason I made this P13 and yet it appears to be very explicit is because of the information we are denying our adolescence. They are at a stage where the breast are enlarging and the penis are getting longer. They have a lot of questions and they start being aware of their reproductive organs . The stop being mere tools to urinate with. Bloods starts rushing downside. In addition to their interests they looking at the opposite or same sex differently. They now want to discuss a new topic  and are curious about the other use of their organs. The curiosity drives them to pornography which is becoming readily accessible due to the widespread internet, and can be cheaply bought in the streets since the regulations are not being enforced. They read about it in novels and they see it in movies and films. The science lesson on reproduction becomes insufficient because its delivered in a very theoretical and academic way. The outspoken crowd “pleasers” influence their peers and misinform them with poison they hear on street corners. This results in them not having access to all the information they need or it not being delivered well. They are told to abstain yet their sources make them view coitus as the best thing to ever happen to mankind. We it is, those few minutes make you forget about everything. Yet those few minutes can scar you for a greater part of your life. Would have said the rest of your life but I prefer remaining optimistic in order not to influence negative perceptions of sexual intercourse.

Coitus is also the process that leads to pregnancy. Pregnancy is an amazing thing that brings new life. Its fulfilling and a source of womanhood/manhood pride. If you are reading this just know that your parents had sexual intercourse meaning your father’s penis went into your mother’s vagina. His sperm and her egg combined and fast forward you are here. However pregnancy is a wonderful thing if it’s at the right time with the right person. It can be a source of emotional turmoil especially when it’s unplanned. Sexual intercourse can also result in venereal diseases like Gonorrhea, syphilis which affect your health physically and can be fatal if untreated. They can cause infertility. Sexual intercourse is the main method of transmission of HIV/AIDS which is no longer very fatal since introduction of Anti-Retro-viral Therapy.

At this point you might be discouraged to have sexual intercourse, so let me clarify that the above mentioned scenarios arise from unprotected coitus. Unprotected sex is when the penis enters the vagina without any barrier between the two. Condoms which are either male or female are worn to make it protected sex. A male condom is put on the penis and the female condom is placed in the vagina. The packets usually have information of the correct way of using condoms and local clinics also assist with information. However you use either the male or female condom but not both. I will not dwell much on all this, but in summary protective sex helps protect against unwanted pregnancies and sexually transmitted diseases. The same applies to sexual intercourse between people of the same sex though there is need for extra information which I will not cover for now.

The extra information is not covered in the steamy novels and pornographic videos (unless they to flash a warning that unprotected sex is hazardous to your health). This information can be freely given to everyone in need if we openly and freely talk about sexual intercourse. It will help people make informed decisions. If you child comes home pregnant or with a pregnant girl its your fault if you never took time to extensively discuss about sexual intercourse. Rules will not quieten the curious mind nor dampen the sexual urge but knowledge will help in self-control and making informed decision. Sorry it was a bit too long but I hope you got the point.

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